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Cultural Etiquette
Dos and Taboos in Greece
1. The standard Greek greeting can take many forms, including the handshake, an embrace, or a kiss, which may take place at first meetings and among friends, family and acquaintances.
2. Be sure to use titles and other formal forms of address until invited to do otherwise.
3. Respect for the elderly is of great import in Greece, and as such, older people should be treated with reverence, using decorum and esteemed regard. Family meals, for example, often do not begin until the members of the oldest generation are present and seated.
4. Note that anger is not necessarily expressed negatively with clear displays of hostility; rather, anger may well be expressed ironically with a smile or laughter. Conversely, animated displays of emotion are not always illustrative of anger.
5. In the realm of para-language, note that the "okay" hand gesture with the thumb and index finger connecting to form a circle is considered vulgar.
6. Also with regard to body language, remember that to indicate "no," one must use an upward nod of the head. Conversely, to indicate "yes," tilt one's head to either side. This rule can be confusing, however, as in recent times, the North American gestures for "no" and "yes" have begun to pervade the culture, thus leading to confusion. Try to ensure verbally which version of "yes" and "no" are being used, especially in interaction of importance.
7. Haggling, bartering and negotiating is to be expected in a business meeting or at the market place.
8. The Greek people are renowned for their generosity; for example, if one is particularly effusive in complimenting an object or an ornament in a home or office, it may well be given to you as a gift.
9. A common practice after giving or receiving a complement is to make a puff of breath through the lips; as in many Mediterranean cultures, this is done to ward off the "evil eye."
10. In some restaurants, it is acceptable for customers to go into the kitchen and look into the pots which are cooking to decide what they want to select from the menu. This practice would not apply in all establishments.
11. Smoking during meals is not unusual in Greece, however, good practice suggest that one should always ask permission to light a cigarette or cigar before doing so.
12. If one is invited into a Greek home, one should be sure to compliment the children of the household during the course of the visit. Taking a small gift - perhaps flowers, a cake, pastries or a souvenir from one's own culture -- is appropriate.
13. Note that when dining in a Greek home, one will likely be offered seconds and thirds in an unrelenting manner. Accepting more food is a compliment to the host and will demonstrate good manners.
14. Business dress in Greece is conservative; suits for both women and men should be used. Outside of business, the attire is generally casual, comfortable, and suitable for the climate. The Greeks are conscious of self-presentation, so an elegant yet casual sense of style is advised. Beach wear should be confined to the beaches and resort areas, and more traditional and conservative clothing should be worn when attending church.
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